Do People Change?

The question everyone wonders at some point and time of their life is;

”Do people really change?”

Everyone has hit a ruff spot in their relationships weather it’s co- workers, friends or, a marriage.

Whatever kind of relationship it is, it’s not always smooth.

The reason is because of dealing with a liar.

And cannot stand a liar that lie without a conscience and think their lies are the truth! “

Watch out for the phase “So help me God,” is what they would say and are willing to take that chance of going to hell!

God has nothing to do with lies some folks tell.

The back stabbing betrayers in the relationship, which means you go behind someone’s back and stick the dart in their back to please your selfishness!

“Burn Baby Burn…disco inferno” Singing the famous Tina Turner Song…SMH

Hope you get my point!

These actions play a part in the relationship that can be very devastating to the other person which is the victim.

The victim may never heal, and may become resentful and, or, bitter towards the accused. And later on will carry that pain to the next relationships, if any.

They may end up being that annoying friend that always try to keep you from being happy in love, because their not.

And what if that person you find end up being your soul mate.

Time to tell them to….

“Hit the road Jack, and don’t come back no more no more,” By Ray Charles.

Or, become that person that stalk you, because they don’t trust you….

“Run Forest Run,” The girl who played,

Jenny in the movie Forest Gump said it best! Lol

The question should be;

“Are people willing to change for the better?”

The player, heart breaker or just plain selfish person, should choose to be honest and admit that they aren’t able to hold a relationship. And to learn how to not focus just on themselves.

And the victims, can choose to become wiser and learn how to guard their hearts a little better.

Take time to heal after that messy relationship before venturing out to the next one.

Choose to forgive at all cost! And move on, trust me, they have.

God Bless,

Lashon G.